There isn't really any sort of pattern to who comes and goes, is there? Not that I've been able to see, at least.

[Elsa feels sort of bad, talking about the person she's close to being here while others are clearly missing the ones close to them, b-but people ask, so...]

Yes, I suppose we are. For a long time we unfortunately weren't, due to... certain circumstances. But things have been changing a lot lately, for the better.