Then you should do what's gonna make you happy. Right?
[She kind of tilts her head a little, but her expression is still reasonably gentle; this is the kind of topic she can understand, after all.]
I mean...you're saying "how do I celebrate" like there's a right way to do it. But why does it matter if you're doing it right if the only people who matter are you and your sister?
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I guess it's kind of hard when you're different, and...feel weird about maybe not doing something the way everybody thinks you're supposed to? I used to do that. But it's like giving a present. You're not supposed to think about what everybody says makes something a good present. You're supposed to think about what the person getting it likes.
So...think about celebrating like giving you and your sister a present.
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[She kind of tilts her head a little, but her expression is still reasonably gentle; this is the kind of topic she can understand, after all.]
I mean...you're saying "how do I celebrate" like there's a right way to do it. But why does it matter if you're doing it right if the only people who matter are you and your sister?
[...]
I guess it's kind of hard when you're different, and...feel weird about maybe not doing something the way everybody thinks you're supposed to? I used to do that. But it's like giving a present. You're not supposed to think about what everybody says makes something a good present. You're supposed to think about what the person getting it likes.
So...think about celebrating like giving you and your sister a present.