Oh wow, that sounds pretty rough. I can't imagine what that would be like.
[Mostly because he was practically attached to his brother at the hip until he died in an accident, but you know.]
Well, as much fun as it would be to surprise her, I think it might be best if you guys talked it out. That way you're both on the same page. Because maybe you like wild parties but she's the quiet type who doesn't like that sort of thing, or maybe you want to spend the whole day cooking a nice meal while she'd rather play video games. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it'll be easiest to figure things out if you guys work together and lay out what you both like. If you guys both remember celebrating the holidays together before, maybe you can bring in some old traditions, if that won't be too painful.
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[Mostly because he was practically attached to his brother at the hip until he died in an accident, but you know.]
Well, as much fun as it would be to surprise her, I think it might be best if you guys talked it out. That way you're both on the same page. Because maybe you like wild parties but she's the quiet type who doesn't like that sort of thing, or maybe you want to spend the whole day cooking a nice meal while she'd rather play video games. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it'll be easiest to figure things out if you guys work together and lay out what you both like. If you guys both remember celebrating the holidays together before, maybe you can bring in some old traditions, if that won't be too painful.