Yes, and that wasn't considerate to your feelings at all. You weren't obligated to make any choice.

[ Asami sighs and lets her anger drain. ]

I'm sorry, I've... tried to mind my own business, but people shouldn't just thrust their feelings on others. It's selfish. Anyone who knew you at all would have known what a big deal that was, and to just... drop of the radar after that? No. It's not okay.