[Heather doesn't often weigh in on 'disappearance posts' these days. What is there to say that hasn't already been said so many times over? And she knows better than most that half the time, advice and platitudes just breed resentment even when they're true. Loss fucking sucks.]
[But hell, it's been on her mind lately.]
It's never easy or painless, and you never really 'get over' it.
It'll always be there and there'll be times when you think you've moved on and something small and stupid will catch your attention and send you right back to how you felt right after it happened.
But it does get easier.
The more time passes, the more you'll be able to start getting the happiness out of those memories instead of just the sadness. It'll still hurt but it'll be easier.
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[But hell, it's been on her mind lately.]
It's never easy or painless, and you never really 'get over' it.
It'll always be there and there'll be times when you think you've moved on and something small and stupid will catch your attention and send you right back to how you felt right after it happened.
But it does get easier.
The more time passes, the more you'll be able to start getting the happiness out of those memories instead of just the sadness. It'll still hurt but it'll be easier.
I'm sorry you lost somebody.