I think it really depends on how long you wait. There is nothing wrong with taking some time to yourself to try and work things out on your own. But it would become a problem if left that way for too long, yes.
But you sound like you know yourself better than most. I think after you've had some time to process it, it will get easier. It will still be hard, but...easier.
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But you sound like you know yourself better than most. I think after you've had some time to process it, it will get easier. It will still be hard, but...easier.